Why is it that the people we love most don’t show that love in the way we need it? Love languages, family history, and why sometimes love gets lost in translation. #memoir #parenting #lovelanguages

“I think it's an issue of narrative--especially the origin story of the United States. What if the true origins of this nation were in 1619 (rooted in slavery) rather than 1776 and rebellion against an oppressive British government?”

“I don't think I understood the extent of systemic racism. I think it's very easy to ignore unless it affects you personally. We aren't telling the truth in our history. And so how can you understand it?”

“What I was not prepared for was how Zoom classes would turn my kids into forgetful, lethargic grouches. I have lots to say about the challenges of distance learning, but the truth is our school troubles predate the pandemic.”

“I’m concerned that each time one of these situations arises and I don’t address it with my kids, I’m teaching them it doesn’t matter. Or that I don’t care. Or that silence in the face of injustice is acceptable.”

“I don’t remember if I got an apology, but in that moment I felt diminished. Had it been a white athlete, would they be under question?”